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3 months left. 3 conversations that can change your career.
If you only do 3 things before December, make them these.
Hi friend,
One thing I’ve learned working with mid-career professionals is that there’s more to careers than the work you do. The conversations you have along the way matter… a lot.
And most people aren’t having enough of them.
We wait until a promotion cycle, a performance review, or worse, until we’re already frustrated. By then, it’s often too late.
The truth is, there are three conversations every mid-career professional should be having at least once a year:
With your manager about growth
Not just, “How am I doing?”
But: “Where do you see opportunities for me to grow in the next 12 months?”
This keeps you from being invisible and puts your ambitions on record.
With a mentor or peer outside your team.
Someone who can give you perspective your boss can’t. They’ll spot patterns, blind spots, and opportunities you won’t see yourself.
With yourself.
This sounds cliché, but it’s the most neglected one.
Ask: “Am I still learning? Am I still excited by the problems I’m solving? Do I want to be here a year from now?”
If the answer is no, it’s a signal and not a failure.
Careers drift when these conversations don’t happen. You wake up three years later, realizing you’ve been doing the same work, waiting for recognition that never came.
The point isn’t to have all the answers after these talks.
The point is to keep your career alive, visible, and intentional.
Because if you don’t ask these questions, someone else will define the answers for you.
So: when’s the last time you had one of these three conversations?
See you next week
Keith